Question:  Dear Greg,

        My niece is a Seventh Day Adventist.  They teach her that we shouldn’t be eating meat.  I think she said it has to do with cleansing the body, if I can remember.

        She might be joining me for Thanksgiving and it wouldn’t be a problem having a meat-free alternative for her.  But would it be wrong for me, as a Christian, to eat meat in front of her if she views that eating meat is wrong?  I see Scripture that might suggest that it is (Romans 14:13 -15).

        If meat is a stumbling block to her, then should I not eat it in her presence— or even serve it, for that matter?

        Thank you,

 Landrum

 

Answer:  Dear Landrum,

        If this passage applied as you suggest, then Christians who have any vegan friends of any persuasion would have to stop eating meat in their presence.  Following this line of reasoning ad absurdum we might conclude that Romans 14 means that Christians who own or work in grocery stores/restaurants/fast food places like McDonalds or Taco Bell would have to find another line of work.  Who knows when a vegetarian might walk through the door?

        Paul is talking about the willingness of Christians to not force their liberty upon someone who is honestly engaging the issue from a Christ-centered, biblically based perspective.  In another place he says that if it makes a difference for someone who is “weak in the faith” he will eat no meat while the world stands.  But remember he is talking about doing so for someone who is in the process of transition— of discussing the issue, not someone who is not.  He is not talking about the need for a Christian to alter lifestyles or professions in entertaining those who simply have differing lifestyles.

        Hope this helps.

        In Christ,

        Greg Albrecht